Sorry if this seems out of place but…i havent been here for a long time…and also ive had the toughest time in my life,recently i had some strange sickness thought i was gonna die eventually was hospitalised and it was horrible but thankfully ive recovered and went home on 27 January.But now ive become infatuated with a certain girl who lives far away and i just want to forget About Her because this is not healthy for me Im not gonna mention Her name or Her Location,But i just want to forget About Her…
2025 has been the hardest year for me and worst of all im Only gonna be 20 years old On june this year meaning im only a teenager but my life is just…not worth living seems like
Hey amigo. It is great to hear from you. I am very sorry to learn that you’re struggling. If there’s anything I can say to that, it’s that we are glad you are here with us. And life is always worth living, better than the alternative. In each crisis there is also opportunity as the old Chinese proverb goes, and you may yet emerge stronger once you’ve of come out the other end of the rough patch. Please don’t give in or up, stay strong amigo, seek out friends and family, take up a new hobby etc, whatever you do, believe in yourself! Cheers amigo.
Same sentiments as our fine @Admin amigo, stay strong and don’t give up.
My story isn’t the same as yours, but I do hope you find some strength from it:
Before having gallbladder surgery this past summer I was damn near total depression as I couldn’t enjoy a meal without worrying if something would set off a horrible pain attack. And by horrible, I mean would send me to the floor or tearing my back up against a door frame for relief horrible. I’m a live to eat kind of guy so not being able to just enjoy what was in front of me sucked big time. Once I had the surgery, everything changed for the better and everything, and I do mean “everything”, tasted so great and to not have to worry about pain anymore was fabulous.
There was part euphoria in all this, but I will say that Thanksgiving and Christmas 2024 were the absolute best because they first holidays in some time I didn’t have to worry about pain. I couldn’t believe how positive everything was for me then from just having a surgery to fix something wrong.
You’ll find that silver lining amigo, I know you will, just take your time.
I was in a very similar position to yours a few years ago, amigo. I almost gave up, thinking that I’d lost everything worth living for. In reality, it was simply the end of one chapter, and the beginning of another…a brand new start. I am doing things now that I would never have dreamed of before. Every life experience, painful, fulfilling, or otherwise, helps to shape our character.
It took me a while to realise that life itself is worth living for. Without meaning to sound glib, you have to get through the darkest, coldest, loneliest nights, before you emerge into the warmest, brightest day…
I also realised that the more shit you trudge through in life, is the stronger that your leg muscles become…eventually, after much trudging and up-hill struggles, you feel empowered enough - and confident enough - to compete in a marathon or two!
Giving up on everything is not an option, when there is so much to enjoy. Come through this dark period in your life, and imagine how much inspiration you can then be to others in the future who are going through similar storms…
I hope the following song proves beneficial, amigo. My very best wishes to you…
